I was over at a blog called Diary of a Young Wife and  she was talking about some small things she was going to do to pamper  herself.  Things like applying lotion everyday and taking better care of  her hands and not drinking soda but tea, instead.  She has done several  posts like this, in the past, and I found them to be  inspiring........because it's an area of my life that I've let slip.  As  a homemaker,  it's easy for me to get caught up in the 'Noone but my  husband sees me' mentality.   SO WHAT!?!  Even if it's 'only my husband'  that sees me, I should make an effort to  look nice for him, because  other than God, he's the MOST important person in my life.   
Husbands  like it when we are well groomed and smell nice.  I think some of the  things I'm going to do to pamper myself is applying lotion daily,  put  on perfume  whether I'm going anywhere or not, and wearing earrings with  my outfits.  Those are just little things but sometimes I think it's  the smallest details that can make the biggest difference.   Head on  over and read all of Emma's post and if you want even more inspiration, in this area, check out some of her archives. 
DISCLAIMER:   I'm not saying that I need to be dressed as if I'm off to have tea  with the Queen, and I'm not talking about perfection or of neglecting my  family for 'self'.  I'm talking about the little things I used to do to  take care of myself that I've now gotten out of the habit of doing.
